I am sending my condolences to you and your family in the death of of your loved one, Karin Jo Bardo. There is hope for our dead loved ones in the Bible at John 5:28,29 and Rev. 21:4. For more upbuilding information for families, individuals and children, go to JW.ORG. When there you can download a copy of the publication "When Someone You Love Dies". It was a great comfort to me.